LOOk BEFORE YOU LEAP. Have you ever been in a situation that you were so desperate to come out of by all means? If I may ask, what happened afterwards? Or rather, what were the aftermaths? I guess you really don't want to even talk about it now. It's okay, let's take a look at some implications that are associated with hasty decisions. More often than not when we find ourselves in awkward positions, the first instinct is to deal with it right there, immediately! but it majorly leads to regrettable results that sticks with one for a very long time. Then the question is: What would one rather do in such situation? COMPOSURE is key. A very calm and coordinated disposition is very important to tackle even the most awkward situation. When the heat is on , you can't afford to add to it by going 'off the handle'. Your sense of reasoning should take the front seat. As one of my lecturers would say "We must blend emotions with intellect(or reasoning)". On the other hand PRIORITY also comes handy as a result of doing what's best in the long term. You must see beyond the immediate situation at hand, you cannot afford to let your excitement(good or bad) get the better part of you, IT CAN BE TOO DANGEROUS! Then as a complimentary approach, SEEK GOOD COUNSEL: One or two advise won't hurt. There are people around with good sense of judgment who you could consult on issues from time to time, after all, you never know! Have you ever heard the saying: ''A problem shared is a problem solved''? Besides the entire processing, usually, it's even more costly to make mistakes that one cannot reverse than to be cautious before it even happens. So next time you want to rush into taking that decision, you may want to LOOK BEFORE YOU LEAP!
LITTLE, LITTLE PATIENCE! Assuming you had an interview to go for and you are all cleaned up, good to go, in high spirit, very optimistic that you would get the Job. Suddenly, you get to to the Bus stop and there is a long queue. You have only five minutes left, what would you do?(I can almost guess your answers but it would be interest you to know that in as much as your answers may be obvious, there are very simple ways of handling anxiety or even avoiding it before it develops. Patience is a virtue and not everyone has it. Old or young, rich or poor, small or big, whatever your disposition may be, we all need patience to achieve our goals. Well, there is no hard and fast rule about it but consistency makes the difference. If you adapt the virtue of patience to your lifestyle, then you are a Success because Patience defines a man. It forms one of the most formidable moment of a man's life. Your entire existence depends on it. My mum usually say, 'With Patience you can cook s...
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