Mind your Language ✍ When I was a young girl of around 14 years old, my stepmother had a quarrel with my mum and out of anger turned to me and said that I would never give birth to any child of my own because my womb was rotten. At the time she was saying this I was still a virgin but for some reason I believed this statement so much that when I met my husband I told him, after he proposed to me, that we should consider adoption because I could not have children. WORDS mean a lot to a child. I got so angry one day when my cousin told my 7 year old that she could not do anything at her age, meaning to a child is that she is useless! I saw my daughter stand there looking dejected, and because I knew where I was coming from, I quickly called my daughter and began to remind her of her chores in the house. I had to immediately change what was said in a fit of anger. She started to recount her chores and this put her in a good mood believing and ...